The 42 Rules of Engagement for Nigerian House Girls

Disclaimer:

Although you might find a few references to the law, these rules are propositions from the desk of a concerned human rights lawyer who is tired of the reported abuses faced by house boys and house girls in Abuja.

Note:

For the purpose of consistency, I will only be using the term “House girl” but the expression shall also apply to House boys, nannies, maids, helps, cleaners etc.

 The 42 Rules

1. House girls and their madam or oga are EQUAL under the law.
2. Section 34 of the Nigerian Constitution provides for the right to the dignity of the human person. House girls deserve their right to dignity. Under no circumstance should they be used as slaves or compelled to forced labour. All work must be remunerated adequately.
3. Once she is above 18, under no circumstance should you beat or maltreat her. If words cannot do it, its not by force, you can get another house girl but beating her or flogging her with cane or subjecting her to any form of degrading treatment is unlawful.
4. You will not die if you greet her first
5. Don’t shout at her and if you have to, don’t do it in front of strangers, kids, and neighbours or to the hearing of the whole world.
6. She is allowed to join Facebook, Twitter and even LinkedIn
7. She is allowed to look for a better madam even under your employ. You cannot ban or frustrate her from seeking.