1. He’s nervous.
“The pressure of wanting to get hard, stay hard, and satisfy your partner can make it difficult to get hard in the first place,” says Dr. Jane Greer, New York-based marriage and sex therapist and author of What About Me? Stop Selfishness From Ruining Your Relationship. In cases like these, it’s as simple as taking your time and letting his sex drive kick into high gear. Remind him that his penis is beautiful and special.
“The pressure of wanting to get hard, stay hard, and satisfy your partner can make it difficult to get hard in the first place,” says Dr. Jane Greer, New York-based marriage and sex therapist and author of What About Me? Stop Selfishness From Ruining Your Relationship. In cases like these, it’s as simple as taking your time and letting his sex drive kick into high gear. Remind him that his penis is beautiful and special.